Here's the situation. He came up yesterday, because we were going to do a photoshoot for a friend. But she cancelled, so we ended up just hanging out in my dorm. But he got flirty beforehand. When I went to go pick him up down in Provo, he was making fun of me, spraying me with water, tickling me, the usual flirtyness of a typical guy. But since we had that conversation of just being friends only a week ago, I thought it was him just being an annoying, rambunctious friend.
When we got to my dorm, he was playing with my hair, playing with my hands, tickling me too much. I knew something was up. Especially when he started kissing my hand. My roommate left, and it was just the two of us in my room, and I knew that he was going to kiss me whether I wanted to or not. Especially because he just grabbed my face and pulled me in.
So yeah. We made out. Something I was not expecting. At least not so soon after our "friend-talk." And on the drive home...it got weird. We were just telling each other stories about our past. And then he says:
"I want a serious relationship."
Just like that, out of nowhere. And at first it sounded like he wanted it with me. He was saying things like "I want a serious relationship so we don't have to go through this every time we see each other," and "I don't know how you feel about it," and "the last time we talked, you didn't want one with me because I wasn't ready to have one with you." and things like that. And he asked me what I was thinking, and I just told him I was confused, because just 7 days ago, he said he liked me better as friends. We don't talk for 6 days, he comes up on day 7, and now he want's a serious relationship? And he said:
"No, I didn't mean a serious relationship with you."
I just...Don't know what to do. What am I supposed to do with some one like this? I mean, I like him, but he drives me crazy with his indecisive-and-convoluted-truthness. I don't want to just kick him to the curb, because I really do like him as a friend. If something were to emerge from this, then great, but right now....it's just a total mess.
Seriously, what would you do if a guy told you something like this?
7 comments:
Something like this happened to me once, only the guy didn't say it to my face. He only hinted at it and then started avoiding me. It seems like what he did to you was worse though - I think it's embarrassing and mean.
I don't what else to say but... Pick yourself up, dust yourself off and move on. Easier to say than do, but hey... What else is there? :)
wow. is he selfish much? hot? yes. but using my best friend like this? not okay with me. what a douche. please, mary jane, can i push him off a cliff? he can't do that to you. i said so.
call me girl. i miss your beautiful asian face
i believe this guy is gay, but must have a bi side to have kissed you, but is still gay to have not wanted a relationship after wards
I can't believe he did that to you?! Kick him to the curb asap please. He's definitely not worth your time.
hes a total player trust me
hes a player trust me
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